
When selecting a location for a family reunion vacation, keep in mind that the event is not just a reunion, but may be the only vacation many family members take that year. If they spend their hard-earned money and scarce vacation days on a family reunion, you don’t want them to regret the trip. Not all in-laws will be thrilled to spend their only vacation time with the spouse’s family.
When Selecting
a Family Reunion Site look for:
Central location
Avoid high altitudes
Available public
transportation (near airport)
Affordable for all
family members
Variety of nearby
activities, for varying interests
Accommodations which
foster socializing
Nearby meeting area,
suitable for group meals
Consider a central location, equally dispersing the burden of travel between all family members. If you have family members on both coasts, check out mid-west reunion sites. If you intend to have regular reunions, such as we do every three years, alternate the reunion sites, with some being close to one coast one year and closer to the other coast during the next reunion.
Some family members will decide to fly to a reunion site, while others will
drive. Those who fly will typically need to rent a car once they arrive at
the airport. If the airport is located hours from the reunion site,
this isn’t just eating up more of the family member’s time, it can be very
costly.
Consider
transportation to and from the reunion site.

When our
daughter was an infant, we moved to a charming California mountain
community, at 6,000 feet. I had visions of Norman Rockwell Christmases,
where my parents, in-laws and sister’s family would join us at our home for
a white Christmas.
I failed to
recognize the hazards of icy and snowy roads, for family members as they
traveled to our home during the holidays. Yet, a more significant
issue was the altitude. The first Christmas it knocked my sister’s
father-in-law to his knees, due to his emphysema. Later, when my father came
down with congestive heart failure, visiting us was difficult.
We should
have remembered this when family members decided to plan a reunion at Angel
Fire, New Mexico – at an altitude of over 8,000 feet. While I enjoyed that
reunion, not all family members felt the same, especially one relative who
had difficulty breathing.
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